Welcome, darling!
There are losses that dismantle an entire life.
When my husband died, I felt completely lost and alone.
No one grasped the depth of my devastation. Yes, they saw the obvious loss. That he was gone. But what they didn’t see was that my entire life as I knew it was gone too.
I felt like an anchor-less boat adrift at sea.
I ached for someone to show up and say, “Here I am, darling!”
I’m here to help you navigate and make sense of your loss. I know the person who you want to lean on is now gone. Lean on me for a while.
We can begin to discover glints of light in the darkness, without needing to know where they’ll lead just yet.
But also,
I will meet you in the darkness. And when you are ready to move forward (different than moving on), we will begin to find a new path through what may feel like the rubble of your life. Together.
This is a space for those living with grief — whether from the loss of a partner, a family member or friend, or a life once imagined.
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“Grief is f*#ing hard. But you don’t have to grieve it alone.”
— me
I didn’t used to swear. Honest.
Whether you recently lost your person or it has been years since you last held their hand, grief — and rebuilding life after a profound loss — doesn’t have a timeline. And neither should you.
Let’s begin wherever you are now, listen to what you need, and gently chart a path forward.
Bringing all of your heart with you.
“Grief, I say, come in. Sit down.
I have tea. There is honey.
This will take as long as it takes.”
— this hallowed wilderness
